"Life declutter, open spaces win" is the motto of the book by Rita Pohle, entitled "Away with it from A to Z". No matter what problem you have, only you alone have the choice between first
Second problem fatten
Problem ignore
third Problem solving
said Pohle. It proposes five questions in order to solve the problem. Do you want to obstacles and blockages that eliminate your luck in the way? Watch out, here Pohle's questions are: first
Is it really a problem?
second Is it my problem?
third Does it dissolve?
a. If YES: How? What is the first step in the direction of solution?
b. If NO: What to do?
This solution-oriented way to get to your destination with little energy. But only if you also want to go there, says Pohle!
Well then we apply the solution-oriented questions on the following times on case studies.
garden party on Saturday night - all friends are invited. Shortly after the party starts, it starts to rain.
first Is it really a problem? No. It is a fact that it rains. This can be not change.
second Is it my problem? Yes.
third Does it dissolve? Yes.
a. If YES: How? What is the first step in the direction of solution? All go immediately into the living room.
The son brings a bad mark on the French home.
first Is it really a problem? Yes. It threatens the class goal of the son.
second Is it my problem? No.
third Does it dissolve? Yes.
a. If YES: How? What is the first step in the direction of solution? Barriers are that keep out the natural son of them to learn French. Study vocabulary, grammar, sitting still ... the obstacles are
